Energy Transference

I believe that we, our DNA are made up of our ancestors and generations before that. Just think about it...

As such, we have the power to choose all the best things that are given to us and use it to our best ability to live in this world. Life and all the experiences, good or bad are a learning curve. Happiness is to be cherished. Hurt needs to be healed and learned. Anger needs to be recognized and dissipated. Joy is to be celebrated. Deceit needs to be confronted and understood. Excitement needs to be exacerbated and watched. We all have the range of emotions and we do have the power to control and influence the negative or positive emotion.

Our parents have a great influence on who we are. If our parents make many comments that we are stupid, we will grow up thinking we are stupid and insecure. Or we may reject it totally and go the other way. If our parents show uncontrollable anger in the family, we could think it is also alright to do so and grow up applying that behavior to others. All these negative emotions/ energies have a way to manifest itself and contaminate others. It may not be in our earlier life but it may happen later, perhaps with a significant other... that too could be affecting us. If they have a negative impact on us... we need to recognize it, go against it, stop it or move away from it.

Both energies negative and positive are contagious. It is better to let the positive energy flow to others because that will impact work, life, relationships, the economy and the world. Negativity will only cause destruction unhappiness and wasted lives.

I did not fully understand the laws of attraction until I met this very incredible thinker and philosopher. Now I believe that it has been around but I just don't know or understand it. The laws of attraction will attract whatever state of mood/energy we are in. It could be attracting people who have the same energy or people that need help.

Meeting people of like energy, re-enforce the manifestations, like recharging batteries. Meeting people that need your energy is more of a giving process, when you are aware of their needs, give it selflessly. Meeting people that take your energy leaves you tired, drained and depressed. This is unwelcoming. We all have these kinds of energies within us... yet again, we can control these manifestations and become who we really are and need to be. There is too much negativity out there. We need to strive for the positive and be better persons, bringing the best versions in others and yourselves.

All these energies can be shown in mindful actions and words. It is as simple and obvious as that. Hard to do but not impossible through striving and being mindful.

It is being conscious of what we say and do. Thinking and reflecting, slow to speak and listening more intently. We are all very special and many ways. We do not need to downplay others or show them up to make ourselves feel good. We need to appreciate who we are because we are made differently and are special. Don't ever forget that. You are powerful and wonderful. Celebrate you, today and every day. Then give back, to show appreciation to others, to recognize that no matter how bad people are, they too, have a special quality in them that is hidden because it has not been discovered yet as they have been inflicted by too much negative baggage from others.

Cast out that negative carp that your loved one has inflicted on you as a child or as an adult and focus on being the best versions of yourself.  And No you do not like being with angry drama queens/kings. That is a bad habit that should be shed away.